Monday, May 29, 2023

Sunday: An Old Friend

Well, then. A full day, per usual on the music mission. I started the day by actually reading this note that was included with our room keys at the first hotel. Hm. Looks like we could have had a discount on dinner last night if we had checked in first? You may not be able to read it. It's mostly boring hotel things, but at the bottom it says, "Ya'll Better Sing!" I'm going to ignore the incorrect apostrophe. (It's "y'all" because it's a contraction...I guess I didn't ignore it.)


I was told there were no waffles, but there was a waffle maker! So I cranked that baby up, Jimmy Buffet playing in my head..."but there's batter in the baker, and soon it will render a non-frozen waffle to help me hang on."


Wastin' away again in hotel waffle-ville. Searchin' for my lost packet of syrup.


Some people claim that there's a youth choir to blame, but I know...it's my own dang fault. Cool thing for the morning. As I was sitting working on the blog, one of the hotel staff asked if we would sing something before we left, so we did. As we were leaving, one of the chaperones overhead him say, "I needed that." 


We boarded the bus and headed for St Paul's Ivy church in Charlottesville. It was an early morning, even by tour standards. I don't usually ask us to leave by 7:15, but, well, that's just how it had to happen. But sleep deprivation is torture for a reason, and while Phoebe looks like she's in good shape in this picture here...there's something not right lurking in the background. Disturbing.


Despite our late departure, we arrived at St Paul's at about the right time, giving us more or less and hour to warm up and get situated. St Paul's is an Episcopal church, so we had to talk about how worship would be different and how to use the kneelers (because, get this, they actually sometimes kneel to pray?). We sang four songs throughout the service. The church really was beautiful, though the youth would like for me to let you know that the pews are exceedingly squeaky, as was the damper pedal in the piano. I was able to attenuate the squeak with a couple of well-places squirts of WD40, though they should probably have a professional have a look at that.


Nick believes I take the Closing Prayer too fast. So I decided to just let him do it. He does it too slowly. But his conducting hands are pretty good, and it's fun to sing with the ensemble for one song...


This is us in the service while singing a hymn. I will say the hymn singing was en pointe. (On fleek? No...they don't say that anymore.) Robust singing on tunes we share in our hymnal, though probably not tunes the choir knows well.


This guy, James, was sitting in the 4th row. I guess that's his seat...we were supposed to have 4 rows reserved, but there he was. So I chatted with him for a moment, and he said, "So you guys are from Decatur?"
"Yes...Atlanta. Decatur is kindof Northeast of there."
"Yes I know. I graduated from Chamblee High School."
"Shut. Up." (<---not my actual comment, but more fun to type)
"Yes. 1968."
"I need to get your picture with these guys...he just graduated, they are in school there now, and she is going to be starting there next year."

There is just one moon, and one golden sun, and a smile means friendship to everyone...


You may be wondering why we went to an Episcopal church in the middle of basically nowhere. It's because of this guy. We worked together for years at Decatur First, and then he moved to Roanoke. Just a few months ago, he moved to Charlottesville! Since we were coming through, he invited us to sing. I have many Mitch stories, but for now suffice it to say he's been an important person in my personal and professional journey, and it was fantastic to see him.


Apparently it was sundae Sunday, which means there is no adult sermon in the service (just a children's sermon), and they serve ice cream after the service. Cole and Nathan are salt of the earth, so when the event was over, they asked if they could help take down the tables. Asked. If they could help. Move tables. See, Oak Grove? This is the kind of youth you have, and you should be proud of them. I am.


Next photo contest was "look to your left," which was for people to take pictures out a window. The responses came in throughout the day, but this one one of the early ones. It didn't win, but I thought it was well done. Sir Trots a Lot is awesome.


After ice cream and a lunch stop (in that order, mom) we headed to Brighton Gardens for a concert. The ice cream and a wrong turn delayed us, but we made it by about 15 minutes late. Somehow I don't have a picture of the whole group singing, which is weird, but I did get pictures of the good part.



We even had one youth learn sign language from one of the residents!


And then on the road again. Can you guess who is hidden under the hoodie?


We had plenty of time for dinner, which was a pleasant change from lunch (where my instructions were: get back on the bus as soon as possible). It's nice to be able to take your time to eat and visit.



Other photo contest entries. There were a lot, but I've narrowed it down to 2...first, the honorable mention. Do you see the cows?


And the winner. How many hidden Johns do you see?


We had more time for devotional, and a great space to do it. We talked about the service...how it was different and what we liked about it (including the suggestion that we institute sundae Sunday at Oak Grove, but also more liturgically focused ideas like passing of the peace and prayers of the people in the style that they offered it). We also talked about our time at Brighton Gardens and how the trip is going. Spoiler alert: it's going well.


Brooke says twinning is winning.


These guys were playing whiffle ball under the lights. Somebody won, and somebody lost.


I came up to the 6th floor to begin room checks, and this is what I found. These rooms are really grouped like this. And also, the rooms on the left adjoin, and the rooms on the right adjoin. An interesting wrinkle that has seldom if ever happened on tour...and a wrinkle that made room checks an adventure,


But...an adventure I can cope with because look here...waffle irons. 3 of them. Game. On.


I'm a little late posting this because I took the opportunity to nap after I untaped rooms, leaving me just enough time for breakfast and getting on the bus. I'm actually finishing this post in the American History Museum at the Smithsonian because there's a bench with a power outlet in case my computer battery dies. Poor Rachel, she decided to hang with me to watch my back.


She's headed to the holocaust museum after lunch, though, so she's not stuck with me forever. But I'm super grateful she's here. (Meaning, technically, this is a Monday picture, but I'm sneaking it in on the Sunday post because I'm in charge of the blog and I can post what I want to post).

Until next time!

Sunday, May 28, 2023

Sunday, 5/28: Arrived in DC


Another day on the Music Mission. We started in Roanoke, sang in Charlottesville, sang again in Chevy Chase, MD, and then wound up in Alexandria, VA at our hotel.

Slight delays this morning found us scrambling to make our afternoon concert, and we were a few minutes late, but we still had a great experience at all the places...and even had time for a leisurely dinner and a [relatively] early night at the hotel. Bonus: after an early morning this morning (leaving the hotel by 7:15), we will be able to sleep later tomorrow...and tomorrow we have no concerts. We'll be on the national mall and in surrounding museums.

And, of course, I'll post details about today's adventures including photos and such! Things are well. We are well. Can't wait to tell you all about it.

Saturday: Getting Our Feet Wet

Our day started at 8:45 when we arrived at the church. We got everyone checked in and then headed to the sanctuary for a commissioning. Pastor Beth prayed for us, and we headed to the bus. She stood and waved as we went by. Beth is always quick to lend and hand and very supportive! And a few extra blessings as we get underway can't hurt, right?


Those of you who followed us last year might remember this little fella, Sir Trotsalot. He'll be joining us again this year...you just never know where you might find him. You can follow him on Instagram if you'd like!


We weren't even out of the parking lot before Cole took up his normal position. "Cole, why aren't you in a seat?" This. Is. His. Seat.


We are Methodist, so naturally the first thing to do was food. We stopped to eat lunch in Greenville...


...mere miles from where my brother lives. South Carolina miles, not Atlanta miles, so it's like 3 minutes from his house. So he, my sister-in-law, and my nephew showed up to have lunch with us! My brother is the older looking one. No, the older looking one...on the left. Ha! David, if you're reading this, this is what you get for always beating me in chess.


We arrived at our first venue a little early. I don't expect that to happen ever again, but on day 1, well done.


FAMILY! I love it when we have singers' family come and see us. Oliver and Carter's aunts and grandfather came to see us. It was nice to meet them. Also they make some of the same faces Elizabeth makes.


After we sang, of course we visited. I've been doing this for a long time. I've written those words ("we visited") so many times. And with 10 concerts happening this year...I'll write it again. I find the pictures of the youth engaging with our audience inspiring.



Then it was back on the bus. I can't sleep on the bus...but some people can.


Aw. Mother daughter bus time!


We stopped at a rest area to change. In all my years of doing this, this is the very first time I have not gleefully exchanged my jeans for a pair of shorts while hoping I didn't sweat through my tshirt. But it was actually...cold? With a little rain. So we had to huddle underneath the pavilion to keep dry (and...we got our feet wet in the grass on the way to and from the bus).


There's a lot of fast food on these trips, but on this first night, we went to sit-down places and had dinner with chaperones where we got to know each other (and also teach some of the youth how tipping works).

New this year: photo contests. I created a shared folder and asked each group to upload a picture (tonight's theme: eating). The group with the best picture gets to get off the bus first. I'll include them all here for your enjoyment.








And the winner is...


Honorable mention to Ian, who asked who the winner was in our trip groupme by sending a Princess Bride gif featuring Count Rugan. ("Who won? How did it end?)

We checked into the hotel and then gathered for our devotional. Wesley sees something, but I'm not sure what.


Devotional time tonight was really just an opportunity for folks to talk about the stories they learned while we were visiting. Can confirm: they were paying attention. Many of the youth enjoy hearing the stories and sharing them. Experience tells me over time most of them will discover the joy of serving in this way. Already today I had to go pull some of them away when it was time to leave.

When devotional was over we headed to bed. As per usual, I taped them in before heading to bed myself.


One more thing. We stayed at Home 2 Suites, which is a new Hilton property. It was a little cheaper than the Hampton and also one of the only places available in Roanoke (or indeed anywhere between Greenville and Charlottesville). The sales manager told me they do not serve waffles, but there is breakfast. I have to say the hotel was nice, but the best part was the service. Our rooms were ready. All the youth rooms were on one side of the hall on one floor. They were attentive, helpful, kind, and patient. Good job, Home 2 Suites!

Looking forward to what lies ahead on Day 2! I'll let you know when we make it to DC...

Saturday, May 27, 2023

Saturday, 5/27 Safely in Roanoke

Salutations and welcome to the 2023 Youth Music Mission Blog! Thank you for checking us out/following along. I'm glad you're here.


I started blogging music missions years ago as a way to let parents know we were safe. This was along enough ago that a phone tree was still a viable alternative to the blog strategy, if perhaps falling out of favor. Turns out I'm old.

Today was our first day, and it was full...if mostly on the bus. We met at the church at 8:45. It's now after midnight, and I've checked everyone into their rooms. Days on the Music Mission are long, to be sure. But rewarding. I'll look forward to detailing today's exploits in the morning, so check back tomorrow.

Meanwhile, I thought I'd share here what I wrote for our program about our mission. This is going to be a great week!

Therefore, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience. Bear with one another and, if anyone has a complaint against another, forgive each other; just as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. 

~Colossians 3:12-15

Sometimes people forget that much of the New Testament consists of letters. These letters were generally written from one person to a community of people with advice for the community. These communities struggle with some of the very issues we struggle with today. I’m not sure if that’s encouraging or discouraging, honestly. But at least we are in good company.

I said  “communities” rather than “churches” on purpose, because at some level even secular communities struggle with some of the same sorts of issues. Arguments over what is acceptable in the community and what isn’t. Jealousy and animosity. Jockeying for power in the community. Bless our hearts, we’re human. Being human carries with it a certain amount of selfish inclination that has to be overcome if we are to coexist peacefully. Paul’s advice to the Colossians could just as easily be Jim’s advice to the Meadow Trace HOA Board. Be compassionate, kind, humble, meek, and patient. Clothe yourselves with love. Let peace rule in your heart. And be thankful.

And be thankful.

It’s almost an afterthought there, tacked on at the very end, but I’ve come to believe thankfulness is actually the cornerstone of a life built on love. It’s more than just saying, “Thank you,” when someone does something nice for you. It’s a way of being. It’s thinking about the people who challenge us, the ones who get under our skin and make us mad, the ones we struggle to look in the eye—and finding in those people a reason to be thankful. Thankful for them and for the role they play in our own lives. Deep thankfulness is life-giving, even life-changing.

It is our hope and our prayer that today we will inspire you to a spirit of thankfulness and praise—that you will join us in spirit and perhaps even in song.  And as we leave today, know that we are thankful for you.  For your listening, for your sharing, and for your smiling, we “raise our joyful hymn of praise.”